Parents do you like being Pointed at?

Good evening Mama's and Papa's little Bloggers.

The pointing of fingers is always a sensitive issue, because there are various reasons why people point the fingers at people and some people do it more often than others.

Maybe you are a parent and you have been married for sometime, and have been trying to start a family and have waiting many years and cannot fall pregnant, and you feel and think other people, especially females are pointing the finger at you, because you are getting on in age. This type of thinking is perfectly normal and most older woman think that way. What do you do in this situation. As christians we can always point the finger at couples or single woman and come out with "we do not believe in donor insemination and invitro fertilzation, we just pray and yes prayer does often work, but for some woman who have waited for years it does not always work and desperation often leads them to do invitro fertlization.

And if you are a man, maybe people and especially other men are pointing the fingers at you because you have a family to support and you cannot seem to pin down a job because you keep been made redundant, or your income is not enough to live on, so your wife/partner is always having a go at you. And Maybe this is down to your lack of qualification, or it could be a language barrier or your accent which is preventing you from finding the job you want, or the colour of you skin or your criminal record. Many young men are trapped in this kind of situation and for many it is a downward spiral that they cannot get out of.

Often Counselling for men is needed, and a good mentor to guide young them

Britain has fought many kinds of equality issues for both single men and woman, including couples who have children and most recently, just a few months back the issuing of a certificate for woman who have suffered a miscarriage in pregnancy.

There is no shame in someone who trys to attemp something and fails; there is shame in someone who does not attempt something. A person will always be recommended and encouraged if he atleast trys to attemp something but fails.

Don't allow people to often point the fingers at, if they are they are probably doing it for one reason because they are jealous of you. Safeguard your Wellbeing and your health and look after yourself.