Shamefulness

Good evening Mama's and Papa's little bloggers

To continue on the subject of shame. There are many people who feel ashamed and are shamed. There may be people who may be ashamed of you for all sorts of reason, they may feel ashamed of the way you dress, the way you style your hair especially if it is wacky and wild, people or family members may feel ashamed of you if you drop out of uni and don't complete your degree, they may feel ashamed if you can't communicate properly, or ashamed if you have not started a homegroup yet, and even ashamed of your website.

But to teach you further using a website as an example, what is shameful is when some people watch certain websites and constantly sit there and boast about themselves, "Oh I am younger, oh if I was managing that website I could make mega millions" are you dreaming? are you using your particular race to an advantage because you think you can shame people and you think you are better than anyone else, or are you trying to ride on the back of somone elses vision, or is it just money you are after?. If you are so damb smart then set up your website why follow other people?.

As I sat in my living room early last week thinking about shame I felt God saying to me "If anyone is ashamed of me I will be ashamed of them before my father in heaven".

Sometimes the way how God deals with shame is not the same way the world thinks of shame. For example to teach people to be humble God my use a website and certain products displayed for a certain period of time to teach people to stop looking for obvious changes all the time.

The problem with society is this, when you are at home no one can see what is in your house/flat, the messiness, the piled up laundry, the dirty pots and pans in the sink and this may be normal for some people. No one expects you to have a pristine home especially if you have children. But the minute you tell people you are single people expect your home to look pristine.

The other problem is with waste many big companies waste so much and, products that are not sole either go to landfill or are just left sitting in warehouses. All Nations be wise does not waste nothing and seeks to sell all it products no matter the timescale. The problem with timescale some people feel ashamed if your timescale does not meet their requirements. If you are in business you need to make adjustments and think productively and remember you will never please every customer.

Likewise if you have a business and a website that takes millions no one says nothing? but if you have a small business for some strange reason people look and compare slideshows. And some people will not admit it if your small business is making an impact but in a way that no one expected. Your sales may not be saying much compared to other big businesses but the way your display your products or write your blog page says alot about you.

If you want to be free from Shame then you got to stop comparing yourself with other people and belittling yourself. See yourself as Giant, show yourself confident, look confident, act confident, speak with confidence write with confidence and people will see you for who you are.