Who do you Trust and Confide In

Good Afternoon Mamas and Papa little Wise Bloggers.

First of all, If you have joined a Community Group, Church Group of some sort, sometimes you need to be careful if you are the only ethnic minority in that Group.

If you are the only black or white person in that Group and you share stuff with someone, even a Pastor and you tell them to keep quite, it is likely what you tell them they will not keep to themselves.

Secondly, also be careful of people who like to surround you with certain ethnic group to control you.

Sometimes I will share stuff and then a couple of days Later I can discern a commotion. LIke yesterday for example.,I shared something, with someone then yesterday I could discern some Ediots were up early 5:00am all shouting out something what I had shared. So I alerted the Police.

But do not worry often what the HS Does he allows you to make this mistake to teach you a few things:

1. Learn to keep your mouth closed. Often saying nothing is sometimes better than talking.

2. Don't be tempted to talk to much or disclose to much information about yourself to people who you do not really know.

3. Take time to get know people, especiallly if you are both very young or a Senior.

4. Sometimes having just one or two Best Friends can be more beneficial than having a group of 10, 15 people who you Whats UP often. If you are on WhatsUp filter your friendship list.

5. Learn not to disclose information that will compromise your confidentiality

6. Seek help if needed before you divulge information. And when people offer to help you don't be too quick to accept and say YES you would like their help.

7. Beware of opportunists.

Your reasons for making friends differ as you go through life and get older. When you are at School you should have made for yourself some Good friends. But often the friends you make at School will change when you leave go onto Collge or University, and when you leave Uni or College or work, yet again your friends change as you start and progess in work.

And when you Get Married and have children Your WIfe or Husband should be your first Best Friend that you can confide in. However, sometimes it is not always possible to confide in your partner when you have a problem and sometimes it takes another person another Good friend of the family whose on the outside to look inward at the problem because they can often see problems maybe you did not see which can help to resolve a situation.